Child Arrangements Agreement (UK)
This Child Arrangements Agreement (the “Agreement”) is made on [Agreement Date] by and between:
[Parent 1 Name], of [Parent 1 Address], [Parent 1 City], [Parent 1 County], [Parent 1 Postcode], England (hereinafter referred to as “Parent 1”); and
[Parent 2 Name], of [Parent 2 Address], [Parent 2 City], [Parent 2 County], [Parent 2 Postcode], England (hereinafter referred to as “Parent 2”).
Parent 1 and Parent 2 are referred to collectively in this Agreement as the “Parents” and individually as a “Parent”.
BACKGROUND
WHEREAS the Parents are the parents of the following child(ren) (the “Children”):
[Children’s Names and Dates of Birth]
WHEREAS both Parents have parental responsibility for the Children within the meaning of section 3 of the Children Act 1989;
WHEREAS the Parents wish to set out in writing the arrangements for where the Children shall live, when the Children shall spend time with each Parent, and how decisions about the Children’s upbringing shall be made;
WHEREAS the Parents enter into this Agreement voluntarily and in the best interests of the Children, recognising that the welfare of the Children is the paramount consideration in accordance with section 1(1) of the Children Act 1989;
NOW, THEREFORE, in the spirit of cooperation and in the best interests of the Children, the Parents agree as follows:
1. LEGAL STATUS OF THIS AGREEMENT
1.1 This Agreement is a private arrangement between the Parents. It is not a court order and is not directly enforceable as a court order. If either Parent wishes to make the arrangements set out in this Agreement enforceable, they may apply to the Family Court for a Child Arrangements Order under section 8 of the Children Act 1989.
1.2 Both Parents intend to comply fully with the terms of this Agreement and acknowledge that it represents a genuine commitment to co-parenting in the best interests of the Children.
1.3 Nothing in this Agreement shall prevent either Parent from applying to the Family Court for a section 8 order under the Children Act 1989 if circumstances change or if either Parent fails to comply with the terms of this Agreement.
2. WELFARE PRINCIPLE
2.1 Both Parents agree that, in all matters concerning the Children, the welfare of the Children shall be the paramount consideration, in accordance with section 1(1) of the Children Act 1989.
2.2 In making arrangements under this Agreement, the Parents have had regard to the welfare checklist set out in section 1(3) of the Children Act 1989, including:
- the ascertainable wishes and feelings of the Children (considered in light of their age and understanding);
- the Children’s physical, emotional, and educational needs;
- the likely effect of any change in the Children’s circumstances;
- the Children’s age, sex, background, and any relevant characteristics;
- any harm which the Children have suffered or are at risk of suffering;
- how capable each Parent is of meeting the Children’s needs; and
- the range of powers available to the court under the Children Act 1989.
3. LIVING ARRANGEMENTS
3.1 The Children shall primarily live with [Primary Residence].
3.2 The parent with whom the Children primarily live shall be responsible for the day-to-day care and routine decisions for the Children during the time the Children are in their care.
3.3 Both Parents shall ensure that the Children have a safe, comfortable, and suitable living environment at each Parent’s home.
4. WEEKDAY CONTACT (TERM-TIME)
4.1 During school term-time, the following weekday contact arrangements shall apply:
[Weekday Contact Schedule]
4.2 Both Parents agree to give reasonable notice of any changes to the weekday contact schedule, except in cases of genuine emergency.
5. WEEKEND CONTACT
5.1 The following weekend contact arrangements shall apply:
[Weekend Contact Schedule]
5.2 If a weekend contact period falls on a bank holiday, the non-resident Parent’s time shall extend to include the bank holiday unless otherwise agreed.
6. SCHOOL HOLIDAY ARRANGEMENTS
6.1 School holidays shall be divided between the Parents as follows:
[School Holiday Arrangements]
6.2 Both Parents shall endeavour to agree the specific dates for holiday contact at least 28 days before the start of each school holiday period.
6.3 Where both Parents wish to have the Children during the same holiday period and cannot agree, the provisions of clause 13 (Dispute Resolution) shall apply.
7. CHRISTMAS AND SPECIAL OCCASIONS
7.1 The following arrangements shall apply to Christmas and other special occasions:
[Christmas and Special Occasion Arrangements]
7.2 Mother’s Day shall ordinarily be spent with the Children’s mother, and Father’s Day shall ordinarily be spent with the Children’s father.
8. HANDOVER ARRANGEMENTS
8.1 The following collection and return arrangements shall apply:
[Handover Arrangements]
8.2 Both Parents agree to:
- be punctual at all handovers;
- ensure the Children are ready at the agreed time;
- behave in a calm, respectful, and courteous manner during handovers;
- not question the Children about the other Parent’s personal life during handovers;
- ensure the Children have all necessary belongings, medication, and school materials; and
- notify the other Parent as soon as reasonably practicable if they will be delayed.
9. COMMUNICATION
9.1 The Parents agree to the following communication arrangements:
[Communication Arrangements]
9.2 Both Parents agree to:
- communicate with each other in a respectful and child-focused manner;
- share relevant information about the Children’s health, education, and welfare;
- not disparage or speak negatively about the other Parent in the presence or hearing of the Children;
- not use the Children as messengers between the Parents; and
- respond to reasonable communications from the other Parent within 24 hours.
10. EDUCATION
10.1 Major decisions about the Children’s education (including choice of school, changes of school, and decisions about additional educational support) shall be made [Education Decisions].
10.2 Both Parents shall have equal rights to attend parents’ evenings, school events, and to receive reports and information from the Children’s school.
10.3 Both Parents shall inform the Children’s school of their contact details and confirm that each Parent has parental responsibility.
11. MEDICAL AND HEALTHCARE DECISIONS
11.1 Major decisions about the Children’s medical treatment and healthcare (including vaccinations, non-emergency surgery, dental treatment, and therapeutic interventions) shall be made [Medical Decisions].
11.2 In the event of a medical emergency, the Parent with care of the Children at the time shall be authorised to consent to any emergency medical treatment required and shall inform the other Parent as soon as reasonably practicable.
11.3 Both Parents shall be registered with the Children’s GP and dentist and shall have equal access to the Children’s medical records.
12. TRAVEL AND PASSPORTS
12.1 The following arrangements shall apply to travel:
[Travel and Passport Arrangements]
12.2 The parent proposing overseas travel shall provide the other Parent with full details of the proposed trip, including the destination, dates, accommodation address, and contact details, at least 28 days before departure.
12.3 Neither Parent shall remove or retain the Children’s passports without the consent of the other Parent, save where required for an authorised trip. Under section 1 of the Child Abduction Act 1984, it is an offence for a person connected with a child to take or send that child out of the United Kingdom without the appropriate consent.
13. DISPUTE RESOLUTION
13.1 In the event of any dispute or disagreement arising out of or in connection with this Agreement, the Parents agree to attempt to resolve the matter through [Dispute Resolution].
13.2 Both Parents acknowledge that, under section 10(6) of the Children and Families Act 2014, a person is expected to attend a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM) before making an application for a section 8 order under the Children Act 1989, unless a valid exemption applies under Part 3 of the Family Procedure Rules 2010.
13.3 Neither Parent shall make an application to the Family Court in respect of the Children unless they have first attempted to resolve the dispute through the process set out in clause 15.1, save in cases of urgency or where there is a risk of harm to the Children.
14. REVIEW
14.1 The Parents agree to review the terms of this Agreement at least every [Review Period], or sooner upon the occurrence of any significant change in circumstances, including:
- a change in the Children’s school;
- a change in the employment or working hours of either Parent;
- either Parent entering a new relationship or cohabiting with a new partner;
- a proposed relocation by either Parent;
- the Children expressing a clear wish to change the arrangements; or
- any other material change in circumstances affecting the welfare of the Children.
14.2 Any amendments to this Agreement must be agreed by both Parents in writing.
15. GENERAL PROVISIONS
15.1 Both Parents confirm that they have parental responsibility for the Children within the meaning of section 3 of the Children Act 1989 and that they shall continue to exercise parental responsibility jointly.
15.2 Neither Parent shall make any significant decision about the Children’s upbringing (including changes to the Children’s name, religion, or permanent living arrangements) without the prior written consent of the other Parent.
15.3 Both Parents shall keep the other Parent informed of their current address, telephone number, and email address at all times.
15.4 This Agreement shall continue in effect until the youngest child reaches the age of 18, or until varied by written agreement of both Parents or by an order of the Family Court.
16. GOVERNING LAW
16.1 This Agreement shall be governed by and construed in accordance with the laws of England and Wales.
16.2 Any application for a court order relating to the Children shall be made to the Family Court in accordance with the Children Act 1989 and the Family Procedure Rules 2010.
IN WITNESS WHEREOF, both Parents have signed this Child Arrangements Agreement on the date first written above, freely and voluntarily, in the best interests of their Children.
PARENT 1
Full name: [Parent 1 Name]
Address: [Parent 1 Address], [Parent 1 City], [Parent 1 County], [Parent 1 Postcode]
PARENT 2
Full name: [Parent 2 Name]
Address: [Parent 2 Address], [Parent 2 City], [Parent 2 County], [Parent 2 Postcode]
Parent 1
________________
Signature
Date: ________________
Parent 2
________________
Signature
Date: ________________
What Is a Child Arrangements Agreement (UK)?
A Child Arrangements Agreement in the United Kingdom records what the parties agree about their relationship, finances, children, or property and the basis on which those arrangements stand, as regulated by the Children Act 1989.
The legal framework governing children's arrangements in England and Wales is primarily the Children Act 1989, one of the most significant pieces of family legislation in English law. The Act established the paramountcy principle in section 1(1): when a court determines any question with respect to the upbringing of a child, the child's welfare shall be the court's paramount consideration. Section 1(3) sets out the welfare checklist, a statutory list of seven factors that the court must consider in any contested case, including the child's wishes and feelings, their physical and emotional needs, the likely effect of any change in circumstances, and any risk of harm.
The Children and Families Act 2014 made significant reforms to the family justice system. It replaced the former concepts of 'residence orders' and 'contact orders' with a single Child Arrangements Order under section 8 of the Children Act 1989, intended to move away from the language of 'winning' and 'losing' in custody disputes. Section 11 of the 2014 Act introduced a presumption that the involvement of each parent in the life of the child will further the child's welfare, unless the contrary is shown — commonly known as the 'presumption of parental involvement'. The 2014 Act also introduced mandatory Mediation Information and Assessment Meetings (MIAMs) before court applications, reinforcing the principle that court proceedings should be a last resort.
A private Child Arrangements Agreement enables parents to reach their own arrangements without the cost, delay, and emotional burden of court proceedings. Research consistently shows that children benefit from arrangements that both parents have freely agreed to, as opposed to arrangements imposed by a court. A well-drafted agreement provides clarity, reduces conflict, and confirms that both parents understand and commit to the practical details of co-parenting their children after separation.
The legal framework governing the Child Arrangements Agreement (UK) in United Kingdom draws on several key statutes and regulatory bodies. Under UK law, the UK GDPR and Data Protection Act 2018 govern personal data in this document. The Consumer Rights Act 2015 protects individuals in consumer transactions. Section 62 of the Consumer Rights Act 2015 addresses unfair terms. The County Court and High Court of Justice have jurisdiction over personal disputes under the Senior Courts Act 1981 and the County Courts Act 1984. The Information Commissioner's Office (ICO) enforces data protection. Parties executing a Child Arrangements Agreement (UK) in United Kingdom should confirm the document reflects current law, including any amendments enacted since the original drafting date. The Children Act 1989 sets the foundational requirements.
When Do You Need a Child Arrangements Agreement (UK)?
A Child Arrangements Agreement is appropriate whenever parents in England and Wales are separating or have separated and need to establish clear, structured arrangements for their children. Whether the parents were married, in a civil partnership, or cohabiting, the need to agree on the children's living arrangements, contact schedule, and decision-making processes is the same.
The most common circumstance in which a Child Arrangements Agreement is needed is upon the breakdown of the parents' relationship. When parents separate, children need stability and predictability. A written agreement provides a clear framework for both parents and children, reducing uncertainty and the potential for conflict. It addresses the fundamental questions: where will the children live? How often will they see the other parent? How will school holidays, Christmas, and birthdays be divided? Who will make decisions about education and medical treatment?
A Child Arrangements Agreement is also important when parents are going through divorce proceedings. While the Divorce, Dissolution and Separation Act 2020 reformed the divorce process to introduce no-fault divorce from 6 April 2022, the Act does not itself address children's arrangements. The Family Court will expect parents to have made appropriate arrangements for their children, and having a written agreement demonstrates to the court that the parents are acting responsibly and in the children's best interests.
Parents who have an existing informal arrangement but have not put it in writing may benefit from formalising the agreement. Unwritten arrangements are more vulnerable to misunderstanding and dispute, and having a clear document to refer to can prevent disagreements from escalating. Similarly, if circumstances have changed since the original separation — for example, a change in working hours, a new partner, or a child starting secondary school — the existing arrangements should be reviewed and updated.
A Child Arrangements Agreement can also serve as a precursor to a court order. If both parents agree on the arrangements, they can apply to the Family Court for a Consent Order under section 8 of the Children Act 1989, which makes the agreed terms legally enforceable. This is considerably cheaper and faster than contested proceedings. The agreement can also be submitted as evidence in financial proceedings to demonstrate the practical arrangements for the children.
Finally, where one parent is considering an application to the Family Court, having first attempted to agree on arrangements and having a written record of the terms offered can be helpful evidence before the court.
What to Include in Your Child Arrangements Agreement (UK)
A thorough Child Arrangements Agreement for England and Wales should address several key areas to provide a workable framework for co-parenting after separation.
The first essential element is the identification of the parties and the children. The agreement should record the full legal names, addresses, and dates of birth of both parents and all children covered by the agreement. It should confirm that both parents have parental responsibility for the children within the meaning of section 3 of the Children Act 1989. Parental responsibility is automatically held by both parents if they were married at the time of the child's birth, or if the father is named on the birth certificate (for births registered after 1 December 2003 under the Adoption and Children Act 2002), or by virtue of a Parental Responsibility Agreement or court order.
The second element is the living arrangements: a clear statement of which parent the children will primarily live with, or whether the children will spend equal time with both parents in a shared care arrangement. Under the presumption of parental involvement introduced by section 11 of the Children and Families Act 2014, the starting point is that the involvement of each parent in the child's life will further the child's welfare.
The third element is the contact schedule. This should set out in detail the arrangements for weekday contact during term-time, weekend contact, and the division of school holidays (including half-terms, Easter, summer, and Christmas). Specific provisions for Christmas Day, Boxing Day, children's birthdays, Mother's Day, and Father's Day help avoid annual disputes. The handover arrangements — where and when children will be collected and returned — should be described precisely.
The fourth element is decision-making. The agreement should specify how major decisions about the children's education, medical treatment, religious upbringing, and extracurricular activities will be made. These decisions may be made jointly, or one parent may have primary responsibility with a duty to consult the other.
The fifth element is travel and passports. The agreement should address consent for overseas travel, notice periods, and the holding of the children's passports. Under the Child Abduction Act 1984, it is a criminal offence for a person connected with a child to take or send the child out of the United Kingdom without appropriate consent. Where a Child Arrangements Order is in force specifying that the child lives with a particular parent, that parent may take the child abroad for up to 28 days without the other parent's consent under section 13(1)(b) of the Children Act 1989.
The sixth element is dispute resolution. The agreement should contain a clear mechanism for resolving disagreements, beginning with direct negotiation or a co-parenting app, progressing to mediation through a qualified family mediator (reflecting the MIAM requirement under the Children and Families Act 2014), and only then proceeding to a court application as a last resort. The seventh element is a review clause, confirming the arrangements are updated as children grow and circumstances change. The forms-legal.com Child Arrangements Agreement (UK) template covers the mandatory elements under Children Act 1989.
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Frequently Asked Questions
A Child Arrangements Agreement is a private, voluntary agreement between parents setting out the arrangements for their children following separation. It is not a court order and is not directly enforceable as such. A Child Arrangements Order, by contrast, is a formal order made by the Family Court under section 8 of the Children Act 1989 (as amended by the Children and Families Act 2014). A Child Arrangements Order replaced the former concepts of 'residence orders' and 'contact orders' from 22 April 2014. It is legally binding and enforceable through the court's powers, including committal for contempt under Part 37 of the Family Procedure Rules 2010. A private agreement is often preferable as a first step because it avoids the cost, delay, and adversarial nature of court proceedings. If a parent subsequently fails to comply with the agreement, the other parent can apply to the Family Court on Form C100 for a Child Arrangements Order to make the terms enforceable.
The welfare checklist is set out in section 1(3) of the Children Act 1989 and lists seven factors that a court must consider when determining any disputed question about a child's upbringing. These factors are: (a) the ascertainable wishes and feelings of the child, considered in light of the child's age and understanding; (b) the child's physical, emotional, and educational needs; (c) the likely effect on the child of any change in circumstances; (d) the child's age, sex, background, and any characteristics which the court considers relevant; (e) any harm which the child has suffered or is at risk of suffering; (f) how capable each parent and any other relevant person is of meeting the child's needs; and (g) the range of powers available to the court under the Act. The paramountcy principle under section 1(1) states that the child's welfare shall be the court's paramount consideration. While a private agreement does not require the court to apply the checklist, parents are encouraged to have regard to these factors when making their own arrangements.
Yes, in most cases. Under section 10(6) of the Children and Families Act 2014 and Part 3 of the Family Procedure Rules 2010 (Practice Direction 3A), a person must attend a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM) before making an application for a section 8 order under the Children Act 1989. The MIAM is conducted by an authorised family mediator who will explain the mediation process, assess whether mediation is suitable, and provide information about other forms of non-court dispute resolution. There are exemptions from the MIAM requirement, including cases involving domestic abuse (supported by evidence specified in Practice Direction 3A), where there is a risk to the life, liberty, or physical safety of the applicant or child, where the matter is urgent, or where the respondent is in prison. If both parents can agree on arrangements through a private agreement or mediation, a court application may not be necessary at all.
Yes, and they should be. The ascertainable wishes and feelings of the child, considered in light of the child's age and understanding, are the first factor in the welfare checklist under section 1(3)(a) of the Children Act 1989. While there is no fixed age at which a child's wishes become determinative, the Family Court will typically give greater weight to the views of older children, particularly those aged 11 or 12 and above. A Cafcass Family Court Adviser may be appointed by the court to prepare a section 7 report, which includes an assessment of the child's wishes and feelings. In a private agreement, parents should consider their children's views in an age-appropriate manner. However, the final decision rests with the parents (or the court), not the child, and the child's welfare — not simply their expressed wishes — remains the paramount consideration. It is important that children are not put in a position of having to choose between their parents.
Because a private Child Arrangements Agreement is not a court order, it cannot be directly enforced through the court. If one parent fails to comply with the agreement, the other parent should first attempt to resolve the matter through discussion or mediation in accordance with the dispute resolution provisions of the agreement. If this is unsuccessful, the parent may apply to the Family Court for a Child Arrangements Order under section 8 of the Children Act 1989, setting out the arrangements as a legally enforceable court order. Once a Child Arrangements Order is in place, failure to comply is a serious matter. The court has a range of enforcement powers under sections 11A to 11P of the Children Act 1989 (inserted by the Children and Families Act 2014), including unpaid work requirements, financial compensation orders, and in serious cases, variation of the living arrangements. The court may also make a Family Assistance Order under section 16 or refer the matter to Cafcass for monitoring.
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